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Can You Hear Me Now??? Active Listening


can you hear me now? active listening

Do you sometimes feel like your message is not just getting across? That for some reason or another your meetings or employee interactions are just not as productive as they could be. Perhaps it is not so much how you’re speaking, but how you are listening.

We all know that effective communication is the cornerstone of a successful workplace. It fosters collaboration, boosts morale, and drives productivity. But at the heart of effective communication lies a crucial skill – active listening. Now in case you’re thinking, “Who me? I’m an amazing communicator!”, let’s be honest, people can tend to overrate their ability to listen. So, let’s dive more into active listening, why it’s essential, and how you can harness effective listening techniques for more effective meetings, and better yet, a more balanced and productive work environment.

What is active listening?

Active listening is more than just hearing words; it involves fully engaging with someone in conversation, understanding their perspective, and responding thoughtfully. It requires conscious effort and intentionality. You are not only enhancing your communication skills but strengthening relationships with your fellow employees.

Why is it essential to be a good listener?

  • Better Teams. When employees actively listen to each other, they can better understand different viewpoints and work together more effectively. This leads to improved problem-solving and innovation.

  • Conflict Resolution. Active listening can help employees empathize with each other's concerns and find common ground.

  • Effective leadership. Leaders who actively listen gain the trust and respect of their team by showing they value their input and ideas.

  • Boosted Employee Morale & Retention. Studies have shown that when employees feel heard and valued, their morale and job satisfaction increase, which can then in turn reduce turnover rates.

  • Client/Customer Satisfaction. Active listening extends to external stakeholders like your clients and customers. Actively listening to the needs and concerns of your external stakeholders can lead to higher satisfaction and loyalty.

What are some key components of active listening?

  • Focus fully on the speaker – give them your undivided attention. You can't listen in an engaged way if you're constantly checking your phone or thinking about something else. You need to stay focused on the moment-to-moment experience in order to pick up the subtle nuances and important nonverbal cues in a conversation. In other words – put the phone away! You don’t want to come off as disinterested or disingenuous when you are in conversation with someone.

  • Show your interest in what's being said – use non-verbal cues. Nod occasionally, smile at the person, and make sure your posture is open and inviting. Encourage the speaker to continue with small verbal comments like “yes”, “ok”, or “uh huh.”

  • Provide feedback. After the speaker has finished talking, paraphrase what they've said to confirm your understanding and show you've been paying attention, especially if there seems to be a disconnect. For example, “What I'm hearing is,” or “Sounds like you are saying,” are great ways to reflect back. Don't simply repeat what the speaker has said verbatim, though as you can come off as sounding insincere. And be sure to ask questions to clarify certain points: “What do you mean when you say…” or “Is this what you mean?”

  • Avoid interrupting. Listening is not the same as waiting for your turn to talk, so let the speaker finish their thoughts before responding. Interrupting can make them feel unheard. You can't concentrate on what someone's saying if you're forming what you're going to say next. Also, people can often read your facial expressions and know that your mind's elsewhere.


How can you promote active listening in your workforce?

  • Lead by Example. Set the tone by actively listening to your teams. Forget the old adage, “do as I say and not as I do”. When employees see their leaders practicing active listening, they are more likely to follow suit.

  • Create a Safe Space. Make it clear that your employees’ opinions are valued. Fostering an environment where employees feel comfortable sharing their thoughts and concerns creates more opportunity for honesty and team growth.

  • Employee Feedback. Allow employees to provide input and suggestions and ACT on this feedback to demonstrate the value of their voices. They are more likely to offer genuine and honest feedback if they see the value in their effort.

  • Regular Check-Ins. Offer your employees a dedicated platform to express their ideas and concerns through regular one-on-one meetings.

Not only is active listening a soft skill, but a fundamental tool for success in the workplace. When you prioritize active listening, you are thereby creating an atmosphere of trust, collaboration, and empathy. By doing so, you are setting the stage for increased productivity, job satisfaction, and overall success in the organization. It’s a win-win for everyone!


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